Ep 82: Raising Kids to Be “Good” VS. Raising Kids to “Make Good Trouble”

For us to get to a future where our children can be all of who they are without policing, punishment, and surveillance, let’s raise our kids to make good trouble, let’s raise change agents, and let’s raise hell together.

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Episode Summary

And I want to make this episode so you and I can have a real talk about how we can make social justice in parenting a practice that is strategic, satiating, and sustaining. So that you don’t have to feel empty or performative. So that we can keep abolishing policing in our heads, in our homes, and in our neighborhoods together, one interaction at a time. That’s why in this episode, you and I are going to discuss the limitation of this idea of raising kids to be good and explore an alternative which is raising kids to “make good trouble” per John Lewis.

Full episode transcript here.

Episode Outline

  • Why our efforts in practicing social justice in everyday caregiving can feel hollow, performative, and not enough.

  • What it means to raise kids to be good and why it’s not the same as giving our children a better life.

  • How to shift from social justice parenting that’s reactive to responsive.

  • Our vision: practicing liberation with our children now so they won’t have to attend DEI webinars in the future.

  • Gratitude



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